One of the best ways to figure out problems and provide a real solution is to think back on the origin of the problem. How did it start? What made you continue? Why are you still doing it? You see just by thinking back you can solve all those questions. You have to break the problem into smaller more manageable parts because taking on big problems whole can be too hard to conquer all at once.
A problem is like a car it has many parts connected to it that complete the whole picture. Now a regular old problem is the same as the a car, there are many parts contributing to the overall problem. Many things happened in order for you to be here in this situation. You must break the problem down into small parts to figure it all out and solve it.
A lot of times we don’t believe we have a problem because we aren’t looking at the whole picture, we have a biased outlook on ourself. We are in defense mode and we don’t want to take blame but within ourself is the greatest solution to proving yourself not guilty. You must look into the past, rewind and think.
You may not even have to rip the whole thing down, perhaps just a few parts of the problem will uncover a solution. To pull off parts you must dissect all the thoughts of the problem and how it came about up till now. If you have a alcohol problem you would want to think back on when you first began to drink alcohol then go from there. Why do you have an alcohol problem? Perhaps you remember your friend offering it to you because his parents said its cool and from there on your life spiraled out of control. If you feel that way, id say do without(wean yourself off) and see if you get any better.
Once you figure out how a problem occurred, its your choice to stop or continue on with it. Id recommend that if your problem is hurting your health and contributing to reckless behavior on others, you should cease to continue. If there is nothing wrong with what your doing and its not harming anyone then continue on, its your choice.
If you can identify how problems occur you can taylor your own ways of not doing things in the future, ways that avoid the same troubled path. But you see going through problems aren’t all bad, it proved that you lived and they confirm the things that you don’t want to go through anymore. Once you master and identify the origins of problems your life will run alot smoother.
Another good thing about solving problems is getting to leave those bad memories for good. Since you found a solution and since they no longer effect you, the memory can be forgotten and you can continue on with your life. It promotes closure and lets you know that the problem you have today wasn’t inherited, you created it slowly and unconsciously it became your reality.
You see you aren’t ever the problem completely because problems lay on external factors of who we hang out with and what we spend our free time doing and never completely organically within. If you break big problems into many small parts you can continue to grow and not be held down by unsolved problems that get buried and forgotten over and over.
Unsettled problems is like a semi used car laying in a junk yard, it may have a few cosmetic dings and a few missing tires but nothing that should be abandoned, instead to be revived and restored. Without maintaing your lifes problems your car will decay, the problem becomes too big and the restoration is going to take much more work than if you would have done it sooner.
The longer you go without going deep within your memory the longer its going to stay there and deprive you of a solution. Dont let your problems rule your life or make an identity out of them. Find a solution today, it may be easier than you think.
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